Make Prom a Night of Good Memories

NEWS RELEASE

By Osage Nation Prevention Programs

Osage Nation, Pawhuska, Okla. (April 23, 2015)—May is the time of year for high school youth to be anxious about graduations and proms. The biggest worry they should have is who they are taking or going with to the big dance. Follow that by what to wear, which corsage or boutonniere would look best, and how to get to the prom. Unfortunately, in today’s society much bigger concerns exist regarding safety from the multitude of drugs and alcohol that are available to youth and young adults.

Osage Nation Prevention Programs (ONPP) encourages parents and/or caregivers to consider the following tips to ensure the safety of their teens and others:

  • Set appropriate limits and expectations.
  • Be clear about the consequences associated with drug- and alcohol-use that they may incur at home or at school, and with law enforcement.
  • Be a parent, not a friend, and ask unpopular questions: Where are you going? Who will be there? What will you be doing?
  • Make a plan with your teen about how they will get to the dance and later back home.
  • Meet your teen’s prom date and/or friends.
  • Stress to teens to not be distracted if they are the driver or just a passengers in the car.Use seat belts.Put cell phones away.And if your teen becomes distrustful about riding with friend(s) for any reason, urge him or her to ask to get out and call a parent/caregiver.

Parents can provide alternatives to prom and/or graduation after-parties by hosting a drug-free and alcohol-free party or activity. ONPP encourages the parents or caregivers to stay up for prom-goers’ return.

Oklahoma Prevention Needs Assessment 2014 revealed that alcohol is the most commonly used substance among teens and young adults. Research shows family is a major source of alcohol for teens. Some parents assume hosting at-home parties where alcohol is consumed is an appropriate choice and may ensure the safety of their teens and friends. However, allowing these types of parties are illegal. Oklahoma’s Social Host Law which is also known as Cody’s Law holds violators accountable with fines, arrests, or even jail time.

Prom night should be a time one remembers for his or her entire life as a celebration of laughter, fun, and dancing. Do not make it a dangerous time with poor decisions.

ONPP urges parents and/or caregivers to talk with their teens; communication is essential. And, encourage your teen to tap into his or her good decision-making skills. Make prom a good night to remember.

For more information contact the Osage Nation Prevention Programs at 918-287-5595 or visit the Nation’s website at www.osagenation-nsn.gov.